Identity and Sexuality
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Searching for my community...For the longest time I thought I was asexual. As a teenager, I had a couple of boyfriends: one at age 15 with whom I was most definitely *just friends*. There was nothing sexual about our relationship, he was a sweet boy, but we literally didn't even kiss! My second boyfriend was referred to for a good 10 years as "The Bastard" and... well... we won't talk about that. Suffice to say, it wasn't a... |
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Hormones... How much do they really control us?Ok, this is mostly going out to the girls out there, because it's more notceable in us (although did you know that men have a 20-something day hormanal cycle too?). Don't read if you're sqeamish about girl-things! I just wanted to vent this and maybe see if anyone else thought the same. I recently got a contraceptive implant, because, well, tbh, condoms kind of spoil the moment, and my bofriend a... |
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Guess I should get this started..Okay, I've been a member here for awhile, but sort of left things slide and not really looked back. I guess, over all, you can say I skim the Pride Community circuit, not really getting involved but still know enough people that I know what's going on.I guess it's because I have a family life and that I'm not in the scene for dating or for major socializing that I don't have this driving fee... |
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Sometimes I wonder...When I decided to embrace this part of who I am and look for someone online, I told myself I was just curious.When I came out to my mum, and to my friends, I told them I just happened to fall for someone who was female, trying to convince them that I wasn't a Lesbian.Now I wonder who I was trying to convince. I have said this many times before, but I hate labels. I hate being judged on one aspect ... |
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update 3So whats new eh.Im sitting here in a full length leg brace,another week and it comes off!Sadly just for an MRI though,hopefully I can leave it fof after that!I dont know how much more of having my leg straight I can take,I wouldnt mind so much but at night the pain is incrediable and in the day Id like to be able to walk without looking like a twat!I cant say crutches are the most comfrtable form ... |
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Love is love♂♀+♂♂+♀♀- Love is love whatever the flavour.... |
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Staying with closets and the celebs popping out of them ...So 'True Blood's Anna Paquin has come out as bisexual. I have to say I didn't see that one coming at all. In the words of Clark Griswold, I couldn't have been more surprised if I'd woken up with my head sewn to the carpet. Jolly good for Ms Paquin, anyway. However, staying for a moment with my often jaundiced-eye view of the planet we call Hollywood and its inhabitants so curiously unlike we ... |
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chillingi woke up with the sun shining through the venetian blinds of the small two bedroon commision home piercing through my eyelids.the first thing that hits me is the desperate need to vomit, next the piercing stab of pain that shoots through my head.flashes of the night before rerturn to me in waves of goon filled confusion. my body curses me with each strain that occurs over every inch of my body.i ... |
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Who's Next To Come On Out?I read somewhere that the "Ricky Martin Is Gay!" announcement was made this week for the benefit of a small group of reindeer-herders living in a remote part of Lapland who were not yet aware of the fact of Martin's sexuality. For the rest of us who have lived with the benefit of media in our homes, well, who didn't know that Martin has been living in a glass closet for the past decade-and-a-bit? ... |
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When will I learn?So your parents tell you that they'll love you no matter what, but whilst your mother will cut your brother's hair, she refuses to cut yours. Not only that, when you do it yourself, all she has to say is, 'take enough off?'. You have them talk to your counselor, and nothing changes. You take them in to see your counselor while you're there, and still nothing changes. You go visit someone who ... |
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